Sunday, May 27, 2018

A relationship can start in that first 42 Seconds


I was looking for a way to teach people to share their love for Jesus with family, friends, co-workers, acquaintances, and yes even those strangers you might meet at the grocery store or on an airplane. So when the title of this book came across my computer, I was curious.  I’m not sure if 42 Seconds: the Jesus Model for Everyday Interactions by Carl Medearis (NavPress, 2018) is destined to become the classic textbook for the topic, but it was definitely a fun read, and has a lot of good information.

The basic premise is that according to a non-scientific study (Medearis and a friends identified all of Jesus’ conversations in the Gospels, read them aloud, and took an average of how long each lasted) that when Jesus interacted with people, the conversation lasted about 42 seconds. Seconds, not hours or even minutes, but seconds. If Jesus could teach someone about God the Father in that short of a time, why can’t we?  For most of us the answer is that we’re too afraid to even try to talk about Jesus, and for the rest, we get tongue tied and go off on rabbit trails. Medearis offers some helpful tips to help us through those difficulties.
This model goes along with another evangelism model: the elevator testimony: sharing the gospel in only the amount of time you get to share on an elevator with someone. It’s not a long time, unless your fear of public speaking in general, or talking religion at all is greater than your fear of being bitten by a vampire bat. But the truth is, unless you have a solid relationship with someone, and that person has specifically invited you to speak Jesus into his or her life, we generally don’t get the opportunity to spend hours on the subject.
This is a guide for the initial encounters, those divine encounters. What Medearis seems to be offering is a way to develop a relationship, a relationship that may grow to the point where the in depth conversations can take place.
4/5 B+

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